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Our perspectives below span divorce topics from behavioral to financial and everything in between.


What You Don't Know About Taxes Could Cost You in Your Divorce
When most people think about dividing assets in a divorce, they think about the dollar amounts — the balance in the bank account, the value of the house, the retirement account statements. What often gets overlooked until it's too late is this: not all dollars are created equal . Taxes can quietly eat away at what you thought you were getting, and understanding the basics can make a real difference in your financial future. Please note: I am not a CPA and I do not provide tax

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Do You Need a Financial Planning Professional in Your Divorce?
More often than not, a CDFA® is a financial planner who, after navigating the divorce process themselves, realizes how invaluable it is to have an unbiased, experienced, and empathetic financial advisor. They commit to strengthening their knowledge of the financial intricacies of divorce by participating in the Institute for Divorce Financial Planning’s educational curriculum and exam. Understanding Your Situation You may have been married to a controlling spouse, feeling lik

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5 Actions to Take Before the “D” Word is Mentioned
Once the word “divorce” is mentioned between spouses a new threat level has been breached. It is a spirit crushing, trust breaking term that should be avoided at all costs. It has even been said that once the word “divorce” is used, the spouse you have known is gone and their actions are no longer predictable. In my experience, I have found this to be a very accurate statement. If your relationship is on the brink, I encourage you now - no matter how much you could never imag

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Time to Outsource
It’s so overwhelming, in one swoop you’ve lost your spouse, your friend group has changed, you have lost family members, your children are c

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Who gets Fido? - 5 Divorce Things You May Not Know Were Things
Every marriage is different, as is every divorce. While there are many common occurrences, you may be dealing with issues that you didn't realize would turn into major points of contention. Adding to the confusion is that each state has its own set of rules governing each situation. 1. Pet Custody - The Law is Evolving In the past, pets were considered property by the courts with no custody shares and no consideration of what might be best for the animal—dividing your family

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Health Insurance Options During Divorce
In addition to the emotional and legal exhaustion divorce can bring, there are matters such as health insurance that are not usually addressed during attorney visits but are critical to moving forward. Understanding how your coverage will change once the divorce is finalized and what options are available is essential to avoid gaps in coverage. Coverage During and After Divorce Once your divorce is finalized, you are typically no longer considered an eligible family member un

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Choosing a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® : Your Guide to Financial Clarity During Divorce
Divorce is tough. I get it. It’s not just about emotions and legal battles—it’s about money, too. And money can get messy fast. When you’re trying to untangle your financial life, having the right expert by your side can make all the difference. That’s where a certified divorce analyst expert comes in. But how do you choose the right one? Let’s walk through this together. Why You Need a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst ® When you’re facing divorce, the financial details c

ktidwell
4 min read


What You Want in Your Divorce, is Not Always What You Need
Experiencing a divorce can be one of the most disruptive events in a person's life. While attempting to preserve some stability, you might cling to certain elements of your past life, but are these truly the best choices for the future? Keeping the House: It’s where your kids grew up, it’s your safe place and you really want to keep it, but should you? You’ve been offered $100,000 of equity in your house while your ex is getting $100,000 of the money market account - seems re

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